What’s Your Opinion? Threesome’s

Another reader has a question.  Here’s the scenario:

Your significant other suddenly ask you to bring a third person into the bedroom.  What would you do? Would you consider it?  Or would you run for the hills?  How would it make you feel?

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11 thoughts on “What’s Your Opinion? Threesome’s

  1. This is definitely going to hinge upon individual feelings, but for me I would go for it. I enjoy threesomes and I don’t really experience jealousy, so it works for me.

    If a person were to decide to bring another into their bedroom, however, I would caution them to come up with rules/guidelines beforehand about what’s okay and what’s not okay. I think sometimes people have expectations about what it will be like, go into it without outlining their own comforts and discomforts and then are highly disappointed when things don’t happen as they envision.

  2. I’d say It depends on the third person.

    If it’s a generic suggestion of an extra “someone” in the bedroom there’s less insecurity then if it was “…my co-worker Bill” or “…your friend Jane” etc. If the suggestion is for someone the other person already knows there is the implication that there is more of an emotional connection then a purely physical one. There would be more worries about jealousy I would imagine.

    I’d say that bringing a 3rd person into the bedroom, at least initially, would be difficult if there was that emotional component. But this really all depends on the couple that’s adding the third “wheel”. Their trust level, security with each other, and so on.

  3. Says every man ever, is right, and this man is no exception. Lol – But now if my honey brought a woman who looked a lot like Penelope Cruz into our bedroom, well there just might be a Caribbean tropical vacation in her near future… Hmm… you’re giving me some ideas here. Lol :-)

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